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At first glance, it would seem that positive thinking and
Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) have nothing to do with
one another. But many of us with ADD develop negative
thinking patterns because we become frustrated by
our challenges and frequent feelings of being overwhelmed. This
negative outlook then makes it even harder for us to
manage those challenges and move forward.
Practicing positive thinking allows people with ADD
to focus on our strengths and accomplishments, which increases
happiness and motivation. This, in turn, allows us to spend
more time making progress, and less time feeling
down and stuck. The following tips provide practical
suggestions that you can use to help you shift into
more positive thinking patterns:
1. Take Good Care of Yourself
It's much easier to be positive when you are
eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest.
2. Remind Yourself of the Things You Are Grateful
For
Stresses and challenges don't seem quite as bad when you
are constantly reminding yourself of the things that
are right in life. Taking just 60 seconds a day to stop and
appreciate the good things will make a huge
difference.
3. Look for the Proof Instead of Making Assumptions
A fear of not being liked or accepted sometimes leads us to
assume that we know what others are thinking, but
our fears are usually not reality. If you have a fear
that a friend or family member's bad mood is due to something
you did, or that your co-workers are secretly gossiping about
you when you turn your back, speak up and ask them. Don't
waste time worrying that you did something wrong unless
you have proof that there is something to worry
about.Leadership by example is important in coaching. A
coaching leader loses credibility when he/she cannot
practice what he/she preaches. This means that a
coaching leader should be well organized, highly competent is
his/her field, communicates openly and encourages feedback, and has
a clear idea of the organization’s vision-mission-goals. By
vicarious and purposive learning, members catch the
same good practices and attitudes from the coaching
leader, turning them into coaching leaders themselves. If a member
experiences good coaching, he/she is most likely to do
the same things when entrusted with formal leadership
roles.
4. Refrain from Using Absolutes
Have you ever told a partner "You're ALWAYS late!" or
complained to a friend "You NEVER call me!"? Thinking and speaking
in absolutes like 'always' and 'never' makes the
situation seem worse than it is, and programs your brain into
believing that certain people are incapable of
delivering.
5. Detach From Negative Thoughts
Your thoughts can't hold any power over you if you don't
judge them. If you notice yourself having a
negative thought, detach from it, witness it, and don't
follow it.
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