Remedies for Nail Biting

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Tips:
As home remedies for nail biting, one can use special nail
polish that tastes very awful and that would help you stop nail
biting. Although this does not get to the true root of the problem,
it can work to alleviate the symptom: namely nail biting.
Psychological factors must be considered when trying to end
reassuring habits with long histories.
Any expert would tell you that germs reside under your
fingernails and nail biting results in the transfer of those germs
from your nails to your mouth. The psychological factors can also
cuase other habits such as Smoking, Weight control, Stress,
Anxiety, Nail biting, Habits, Exam nerves, Low self-esteem,
Self-confidence and self worth Social phobias, Irrational fears and
phobias, Emotional problems Psychosexual problems, Sleeping
problems, Stuttering Enuresis (Bed wetting), Guilt, Obsessions and
compulsions Relationship problems…Please note that this is by no
means a comprehensive list.
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO IMPROVe YOUR SELF?
Sometimes, when all our doubts, fears and insecurities wrap
ourselves up, we always come up with the idea of
“I wish I was somebody else.” More often than not,
we think and believe that someone or rather, most
people are better than us.- when in reality, the
fact is, most people are more scared than us.
You spot a totally eye-catching girl sitting by herself at a
party, casually sipping on a glass of Asti Spumanti. You think to
yourself, “she looks so perfectly calm and confident.” But if
you could read thru her transparent mind, you would see a
bunch of clouds of thoughts and you might just be amazed that
she’s thinking “are people talking about why I am
seated here alone?... Why don’t guys find me
attractive? …I don’t like my ankles, they look too skinny… I
wish I was as intelligent as my best friend.”
We look at a young business entrepreneur and say “Wooh…
what else could he ask for?” He stares at himself
at the mirror and murmur to himself, “I hate my big
eyes… I wonder why my friends won’t talk to me… I hope mom
and dad would still work things out.”
Isn’t it funny? We look at other people, envy them for
looking so outrageously perfect and wish we could trade
places with them, while they look at us and thinks of
the same thing. We are insecure of
other people who themselves are insecure of us.
We suffer from low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence
and lose hope in self improvement because
we are enveloped in quiet desperation.
Sometimes, you notice that you have an irritating
habit like biting off your finger nails, having a foul mouth,
and you – of all people, is the last to know.
I have a friend who never gets tired of talking. And in
most conversations, she is the only one who seems
to be interested in the things she has to say. So
all of our other friends tend to avoid the circles whenever
she’s around, and she doesn’t notices how badly
she became socially handicapped – gradually affecting
the people in her environment.
One key to self improvement is to LISTEN and TALK to a
trusted friend. Find someone who you find comfort in opening
up with even the most gentle topics you want to
discuss. Ask questions like “do you think I am
ill-mannered?”, “Do I always sound so argumentative?”,
“Do I talk too loud?”, “Does my breath smell?”, “Do I
ever bore you when were together?”. In this way,
the other person will obviously know that you are
interested in the process of self improvement. Lend her your
ears for comments and criticisms and don’t give her answers
like “Don’t exaggerate! That’s just the way I
am!” Open up your mind and heart as well. And in return, you
may want to help your friend with constructive criticism that
will also help her improve her self.
One of Whitney Houston’s songs says “Learning to
love yourself is the greatest love of all.”
True enough. In order to love others, you must
love yourself too. Remember, you cannot give what you
do not have.
Before telling other people some ways on how
to improve themselves, let them see that you yourself
is a representation and a product of self improvement. Self
improvement makes us better people, we then inspire
other people, and then the rest of the world will
follow.
Stop thinking of yourselves as second-rate beings. Forget
the repetitive thought of “If only I was richer… if
only I was thinner” and so on. Accepting your true self
is the first step to self improvement. We need to stop
comparing ourselves to others only to find out at the end
that we’ve got 10 more reasons to envy them.
We all have our insecurities. Nobody is perfect.
We always wish we had better things, better features,
better body parts, etc. But life need not to be perfect
for people to be happy about themselves. Self
improvement and loving yourself is not a matter of shouting to
the whole world that you are perfect and you
are the best. It’s the virtue of
acceptance and contentment and this is one of the remedies
for nail biting. When we begin to improve ourselves,
we then begin to feel contented and happy.
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